Beginners & New Practitioners

i just started BJJ 2 weeks ago and have never been more humbled in my life. AMA

im 32 years old. former college athlete (basketball). thought i was in decent shape. walked into my first BJJ class 2 weeks ago and had the most humbling experience of my entire athletic career.

some highlights from my first two weeks:

  • a 155lb purple belt submitted me 7 times in a 6 minute round. im 6'2" 200lbs. size means NOTHING in this sport
  • i learned what a rear naked choke feels like. its terrifying and effective. i tapped in about 2 seconds
  • i was out of breath within 3 minutes of my first roll. my "cardio" from basketball was completely useless for grappling. completely different energy system
  • a 16 year old blue belt pretzel-twisted me into a position i didnt know the human body could be in and then calmly choked me while explaining what he was doing. i nearly quit on the spot
  • i had to do laundry 4 times this week because gi smell is a real thing
  • my fingers hurt, my neck is sore, and i have bruises i cant explain. i have never been happier

the thing nobody told me: this sport is ADDICTIVE. the problem-solving aspect of grappling — figuring out how to escape, how to control, how to submit — its like physical chess. my brain lights up in a way basketball never did.

im hooked. im bought in. im going to be terrible for a long time and i dont care.

AMA about starting BJJ as a 32 year old former athlete with zero grappling experience. if you are on the fence about trying it, ask your questions.

Community ReportAutomatedSource: Community ReportPublished: Apr 4, 2026, 5:44 AM

6 Comments

the basketball cardio to BJJ cardio transition is real. i was a marathon runner and gassed out in my first BJJ class. grappling uses muscles you didnt know you had in patterns your body has never done. it takes 3-4 months for your "grappling cardio" to develop

former D1 football player here. started BJJ at 35. the humbling is REAL but its the best thing that ever happened to me. welcome to the mat brother. see you in 10 years when youre a purple belt who submits college athletes and calmly explains what youre doing

the 155lb purple belt submitting a 200lb former athlete is the most BJJ thing ever. welcome to the cult. you will never leave. the addictive phase you are in right now lasts about 6 months and then it becomes a lifestyle

the 16 year old blue belt who explained the submission while applying it is peak jiu jitsu. thats a kid who has been training since he was 8 and has more mat time than adults with 5 years of experience. age means nothing. time on the mat means everything

the fact that youre hooked after 2 weeks AND humbled means you have the right mindset. the people who quit are the ones who cant handle being bad at something. you can. thats why you will succeed

questions for your AMA: how did you find your gym? what made you finally walk in? and has the soreness gotten any better? (spoiler: it doesnt for about 6 months)